To all girls, ladies & women out there...

Reviewing what has been on the newspaper daily, we will never fail to see women becoming a victim in situations like being whacked by the husband mercilessly..to the point of many numbers of broken bones are reported, lying helplessly on the hospital bed..with eyes so brutally bruised black in color. 


Another scenario was, a university student who falls in love with a 40 yrs old man with 2 wives, knowing the situation she was in..despite it all sacrificing all her feelings, money, dignity..just to have this man's love.


Did we notice what is the meaning of  "LOVE" ?? for obvious reasons i know love should make a person happy..never less, love should empower a person to be the best person they could never imagine they could be..when we fail to know the meaning of love...we go through all the hardship & emotional torture to only break us apart one day..whether we'll end up in the hospital bed, or being used by a married man..does all this happening make sense in the meaning of  LOVE?


Women has been given something special from GOD to be a  very loving person, so they can shower their love to their own family, to people around them more than men. That is why sometimes women go ALL OUT in their pursue of LOVE when they found a MEN, regardless of the status whether he's poor or rich..educated or uneducated..handsome or beasty look alike. In this pursue, we often forget that we have not LOVE ourself enough to just be merely accepting the men that we stumble into.


This is my love reminder to all the girls, ladies and women out there including me...Please, please..learn & equip yourself on How can u love yourself first? Set your standard right..that's the key that can take you far away from all the discrimination of the men's world.

Today's Agenda...

I recently has a conflict with myself..in doing something truly important to me, deep down i find hesitation in doing it, after lots of reading & "googling". I find something interesting to do in overcoming this problem of mine. Which is:


Asking Yourself Questions...


even though this sounds lil bit kiddish to me but i believe it'll work..i started asking myself questions like below:


1. Why do i need to do this?
2. Why am i afraid / hesitate everytime i want to do this?
3. How do i make myself brave in doing this?
4. What are the consequences i shall face in the future if i
     didn't do this now?
5. What will the impact be towards me & towards all the  
     people i love (e.g: my parents, my siblings, my dear 
     friends, my boyfriend) all around me?
6. What can i do to make this a MUST and An Enjoyable thing
     that i look forward to do it from now onwards?


i have all the answers for all these questions towards the thing that i hesitated to do all this while, and tonight i'm going to link it with my deepest emotion and replay it in my mind and make it exactly the reality like i want it to be tomorrow!!...


can't wait for the outcome "BOOOMMMMM"


p/s: keep asking urself the right question, u ask and u shall receive..remember "RIGHT" questions ;)

life's expectation, what yours?

usually if aku dh dok menaip pagi2 buta ni tak lain tak bukan mmg sbb malam tadi takleh tido langsung..too many things racing around in my mind, skit lagi dh nak sama cam F1..huhu.

I have this thought..and i know i'm a person with high expectation in life, be it to myself or people around me. Though i tend to, u know let it go at times, let it flow with what's life got to offer...deep inside i can feel the feeling of denial increasingly... towards my so call "let it flow" attitudes.

At times, i feel that i'm very bad in making decisions...decisions involving my own life, for God's sake!. I tend to think about how other people around me would feel first, i can't stand it if i felt that i've ruined someone's feeling and over the years i've develop a very high intensity of living in denial. In denial of my own true feeling, sucking up to the idea of what if this is not what i expect it to be? making a verrry wrong decision..(even when i'm only thinking of doing it, belum buat lagi tuh!)..i'll shrink back in my shell for the zillion-th time ever.

Even if what i'm currently attached to doesn't meet my expectation, and i can get what i expect out there..i still feel its better for me to be where i am now..rather than pursuing or chasing for my expectations. What the HELL is wrong with me? why can't i just stand up for once and stop living in denial no more??? how hard is that?? sighh...my thoughts and my feelings seems to have "perang saudara" here.

I always will think of the worst case scenario if i were to chase or get my expectation, why does my thought works dat way? i really can't figure it out...but one thing that i do know is, i can't keep living in denial. I just have live up my expectation regardless of what the consequences are..after all everything has its pro's & con's kan?

besambung when i'm not living in denial lagi..huhu

A Matured Soul

selamat menyambut ramadhan kepada semua umat islam, i'm writing this right after sahur sharp at 6.10am, i read this book last night when i'm tossing & turning on my bed trying to force my sleepy eyes to sleep and my brain to synchronize with it.

I just felt the need to share this lil' info that i feel could be put to good use, for me as well as the readers out there;

Criteria found in a person who has already reach a matured soul phase:

1. They are generally very friendly and have a pleasant smile.

2. They liked other people and feels easy to help others.

3. They're always keeping themselves abreast with the upcoming news (*important ones)

4. They often dressed up very casually (not overdo), they didn't try to impress others

around them with the wealth they possess.

5. They are not the type of person whom like to whine.

6. They could understand people who are younger or older than them, and have the

ability to mix around with both groups of people.

7. Among them, some loves sports and will be doing it till they're at the golden age with

a happy heart.

8. For them, the purpose in involving in something is not to score the highest point,

only to stimulate the motivation in themselves

i only posses minimum 2 of these criteria...and i have found people around me with all these criteria, its really comfortable being around them...how about you?

p/s: i'm on my way of harnessing a mature soul..;)

Amy (bukan nama sebenar)

This story is about a friend that i met few years ago, Before going further down my storyline i would like to state that i'm not a judgmental person towards anyone..since i believe in giving second chance to others as well as myself, to me there's no one perfect out there.

We're meant to have friends, our family & our loved ones out there to make us complete in one way or another. However through the years i've known this friend of mine, let's name my friend "amy" (bukan nama sebenar ye) shall we? :). I felt that amy tend to keep away lots of things from me, it does bother me when we befriended after quite some time. However i always brush away my negative thoughts about amy, perhaps amy has reasons to not share the things that i felt i ought to know as a friend.

There's one time when i asked amy about it, amy turns quite & sour perhaps to let me drop the subject. Well after befriending amy for few years down the road i had to confront amy about this situation and amy claims to proof it in black & white.

One day as promised amy came by to bring the proof of my disbelieve, after dinner & drinks..i was too tired to raise the subject and amy left with the so called "proof". When i wake up the next morning..i text amy " i thought u said u wanted to leave the proof behind" but amy din replied to my text. After a while i decided to call amy, and amy told me "sorry, i carry it off with me yesterday..can i scan n email it to you?". I replied " i thought we have agreed on the hard copy?", the air is heated with arguments between amy's word and my heated chest. After which amy claims the line is not good, that amy can't hear me clearly..amy told me will call later.

To my surprise (actually i'm not really surprised)...amy didn't even bother to call nor sms. Amy only called the next evening about 45 mins past 7. Amy tried to speak as if nothing had happened, and sensing my unresponsive tone..amy said "i'l scan it and email you tonight, ok?" since i didn't agree on it on our arguments the day before.

At this point of the conversation i realized that i have no more strength nor passion to continue my friendship with amy, i guess we have reached a so called T-junction that i decide to drop amy where amy belongs.

Dear amy, though i feel like i wanna whack you off your arse..i decide to let it pass me, i believe as best-est friend of mine said " karma pandai la carik amy tu nanti"

p/s: i'm not writing this in a sad mode, in fact a very calm one..since amy actually never really

belong to my journey ;)

Yeaaa...baju baru for my blog!..*wink*

aaahhh..its been long since i wrote here, so rasa cam nak tukar baju dia sikit baru la nampak lively skit..hehe, what do u guys think? cantik tak? hehe..its been 4 months since the "tragedy" happen to my life, my emotion is already at the stable condition though it could spike up when i saw someone on fb related to the "tragedy", somehow i decide to let it pass me.

i've been having trouble to sleep lately, gets worst after i came back from spain for our TTW trip on july 3rd. I gotta admit i have lots on my mind..with all the achievements i badddly want to craft on this journey. Which will determine where i will stand for the next years to come.

My ex-boss once asked me "faizah, have u ever slept and wake up in the middle of the nights? and u can't get back to sleep?"

i replied " no, never..i sleep soundly every night :)"

he then smiled and replied "hmm..u're very lucky girl :)"

back then i was thinking " ape la mamat ni tanya soalan camtu, time tido..tido je laa"

now..at this stage of my life i know what he meant, with all the expectations u want to have in life, and all the "cabaran dan onak duri" that gets along the way..with the "ouchhh", "arggghh" & whatever sound we make.

At times we tend to be weaker than we should be, only to realized that we have an extraordinary strength lies in within us..that's just waiting to spark of..thus i believe whatever life throws at me, i should never ever question my believe to earn all the SUCCESS i want to have in this journey!!.

I believe with all my heart & soul that i will make my journey a GREAT one!!

one fine friday..

This has happened two weeks ago, came rather unwarned..as of today for as long, only to know where i stand in the eyes of those people i love around me. Loving them rather unconditionally, being the one that would do anything just for their sake..perhaps the only way that i could learn about life is in such a way.

I've vow not to let anything be on my way to achieve whatever i've put my mind into..

And if the only way for those people i love to believe in me is by proving to them i'l be on top with or without their believe..i will show them one fine friday.

Even if i were to fall on my face..i'll instill the believe in their very heart, that it'll whisper in their ear..that's my vow & a challenge that i must take.